Reasons Why Men Choose Femdom

Femdom in BDSM is a fairly common type of sex, where the top partner is a woman, and a bottom partner is a man. The woman in this case is the mistress, while the man is the slave. Which men choose the role of submissive?

  • Thrill-seekers. Unusual sex for such men is comparable to a roller coaster: scary, but terribly interesting. And, most importantly, we know that nothing terrible will happen.
  • Those who are afraid of responsibility. Making decisions, solving problems is not an easy task, but here is a game where there are certain rules, control, everything is clear and predictable. You can allow yourself to relax.
  • Men with unrealized addictions. A person is born active or passive by nature, but in life, everything can be different. If a passive by birth occupies a leadership position, then it is vital for him to realize his innate predilection. 
  • Those who want to diversify both life in general and sex in particular. There is an opinion that people who have experienced psychological trauma in childhood enter into BDSM relationships. Though, the niche of such sexual relationships is mainly filled by extroverts.
  • Guilt always demands punishment. Once upon a time, public flogging was a common method. Since those distant times, on a subconscious level, the guilty one is looking for punishment by a now-forgotten method.

Disciplinary games

Disciplinary games are the element included in almost all types of femdom video. Pain, dirty practices, publicity – not all submissives are ready for this, but every submissive likes the execution of orders from the mistress. A firm instruction to bring a strap-on, take a subservient position, or just do housework for the bottom sounds like sweet music. The mistress can order a full glass to be brought to her, and, of course, punish if the slave spills the contents.